Dear Vie, I’ve always put others first, and now I feel drained and lost. How do I start prioritizing myself without feeling selfish?

Sincerely, Running on Empty

Ben Robbins

Dear Running on Empty,

It’s a beautiful thing to have a heart that gives, but even the most generous heart needs to be refilled. Prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish. It is necessary. Because it’s impossible to pour from an empty cup. Fill yourself up first. Start small. Set boundaries, carve out moments for yourself, and honor your needs as m…